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Tony’s Story

Tony Hutton’s daughter, Lily-Mae, has a range of complex disabilities, is a full-time chair user and non-verbal. Finding places where she can experience adventure, try new things and make new friends isn’t easy. Seeing the joy on Lily-Mae’s face during their visits to Calvert Lakes means our centre is a very special place for this family. Our team see the person, not the disability, and we excel at encouraging participation for everyone. Lily-Mae loves to sail, cycle, swim, meet the ponies and swing from the ceiling in the sports hall. Her smile is infectious and we love welcoming her to the centre.

Since discovering the accessible and inclusive activities available at Calvert Lakes, Tony has encouraged more families and groups to visit and experience the life-changing adventures we offer to people of all abilities, together with their friends, families, peers and carers.

Tony is a true friend of Calvert – a staunch ambassador, regular visitor and an avid supporter of all we do.

We asked Tony to tell us about his experiences here and why this place means so much to him and his family.

Q: How did you first hear about Calvert?

From a friend.

Q: Tell us about your first visit to Calvert.

We spent 13 years trying to find a place that could not only cater for our daughter’s physical needs but also her emotional and particular sensory needs .

We were not successful … until Calvert Lakes.

I remember vividly meeting our first instructor Dan who went through the various housekeeping and safety things we needed to know but also the first days activities zip wire and high ropes and he kept talking to our daughter (who is non verbal) directly which was so refreshing.

Watching your child, who is restricted by her cerebral palsy, total blindness, epilepsy, wheelchair etc, be generally rebuffed by so many businesses and so-called activity organisations over 13 years was heartbreaking and soul destroying and so unfair.

Coming to Calvert, even on day one, we knew this place was different. A can-do, nothing too much trouble, fully empathetic, patient attitude, was incredibly refreshing and empowering.

That week our daughter abseiled off a cliff, went sailing on a catamaran, zip wired through 60 foot trees, went canoeing on a lake and so much more, and we witnessed a rebirth of a child who suddenly felt alive, felt seen and part of something.

The joy on her face and the way she made her happy noise so much that week are memories we will never forget and we watched her grow … it was priceless.

Q: Who do you visit Calvert Lakes with?

My wife and daughter.

Q: Can you tell us about your favourite memory or achievement at Calvert Lakes?

This is so hard as there have been so many but I think watching and listening to her on the catamaran with the sails up the wind blowing in her face and the sails flapping along with the sounds of the waves, she was laughing from start to finish.

Her head poking through the bright orange life jacket enough to see her face lit up like a Christmas tree and her long hair being blown all over … she was, for those precious hours, loving her life to the full.

Q: In your opinion, what makes Calvert different from other places?

They refuse to define people by their physical or mental difficulties and look at each person as a true individual that just needs adjustments in order to take part fully in everything they have on offer and their staff are not only well trained and knowledgeable, but they truly care and it shows.

Q: Describe Calvert in 5 words or less.

Empowering, inclusive, enabling, empathetic, stunning.

Q: Calvert is ...

our new lease of life, our daughter’s second chance of truly being part and taking part in life.

Q: One thing everyone should try at Calvert is ...

the zip wire!

Q: The best thing about Calvert is ...

Tough one … but the staff from the office, the cleaners, the kitchen staff, the maintenance team and, of course, the instructors for without this incredible team you can have the best activities in the world you just couldn’t pull it off as good as they do.

Q: Because of Calvert, we can ...

watch our daughter live a life of joy, challenge and fulfilment.

Q: A word that sums up Calvert for me is ...

empowering.